The weather here has cooled again and we are expecting snow tomorrow and Monday, the older two are wild with excitement at the idea and already have plans for the snowman they intend to build....so holding thumbs that they won't be disappointed. Andrew is joining us for lunch tomorrow to celebrate his birthday and I am looking forward to chilling with family and enjoying a nice big Sunday roast for lunch - one thing about the weather, it certainly lends itself to large hot lunches.
Off to look at two new schools for Phillip on Tuesday as I am desperate to get him into school in the village and both local schools have one space available currently, so he and I are going to visit them and then decide from there.....fortunately for me he is not ecstatically happy where he is and will move quite willingly so we will see what happens.
Saturday, 31 January 2009
Wednesday, 28 January 2009
Wednesday 28th January 2009
Okay winter is now officially here and although the temps are on the increase and spend most of their time between 5 and 9 degrees it is very wet and grey and has been raining for at least a week now. Shopping in these conditions is an absolute nightmare and I was muttering much better as I scuttled across the Sainsbury's car park earlier today with little Nick scrunching his face up against the rain and all my shopping getting soaked.....the only conciliation is that my dad tells me it is also cold and miz in SA today so I felt a little less alone dealing with these nasty conditions, and at least it is not supposed to be warm here.
During my first month in England I remember detailing a shop that I had done for around £50 .....well prices have either gone up or we are eating more as an average week now costs me around £80.....although we have added Nick to the equation so that may also be it.
During my first month in England I remember detailing a shop that I had done for around £50 .....well prices have either gone up or we are eating more as an average week now costs me around £80.....although we have added Nick to the equation so that may also be it.
- 12 pints (+-6l) fresh milk (Philly is like a little calf and drinks huge amounts of milk)
- 1 x bag (32) disposal biodegradable nappies
- 1 x box (5) Caprisun orange juice sachets
- 1 x packet (80) wetwipes
- 1 x bag frozen corn on the cob
- 1 x bag frozen peas
- 1 x 750 g All Bran Flakes
- 2 x Juice concentrate
- 3 x small jars baby food (kept for emergencies....I make most of Nick's food myself)
- 1 x 5kg bag potatoes
- 3 x yogurt's
- 12 x small probiotic yogisips
- 1 x butter
- 6 x fromage frais (similar to yogurt but more calcium for Nick)
- 2 x small packets fruit and yogurt flakes (for Meg's lunch box)
- 1 x Twirl chocolate (my reward for shopping :-)
- 1 x cereal bars (for lunch boxes)
- 1 x packet of 8 sausages
- 1 x packet diced bacon
- 1 x packet beef casserole meat
- 2 x packets breaded chicken goujons (like crumbed chicken strips only done for you)
- 1 x box bread crumbs
- 2 x packets loin pork chops (3 in each packet)
- 1 x deboned chicken breasts
- 1 x box of 16 laughing cow cheeses (for Phil's lunch box)
- 4 x loaves white bread
- 2 x lurpak spreadable butter
- 1 x bag of 20 small packets of crisps (for lunch boxes and snacking)
- 6 x hot cross buns (another treat for doing the shopping:-)
- 2 x loose parsnips
- 1 x cauliflowers
- 1 x bag pink ladies apples (from SA I might add)
- 1 x punnet mushrooms
- 2 x bags clementines
- 1 x broccoli
- 1 x fresh garlic
1 x packet fresh carrots
1 x Swartz Beef Casserole sauce. - 1 x swede (although what the hell I am supposed to do with it I am not sure...gonna try steaming)
And that is the family fed and kept perfectly happy for the week....List obviously varies from week to week depending on what we are running low on, but I would honestly say food shouldn't cost you more then £380 - £400 a month as we eat exceptionally well and I really don't price hunt too much I know what I like and I buy it - you can reduce this amount considerably if you buy "no name" or "shops own" brands and drive around between the discounted stores.
We have also found the food to be exceptionally good here and I am not sure where the stories about the shocking meat come from as we are in love with the pork and both the lamb and beef are of superior quality.....to be honest, we are buying "expensive" meat, but it is no more expensive then buying your meat from Spa or Pick n Pay....if I wanted to buy Checkers priced meat it is also available, but then I am sure I would be getting a slightly lower quality. As long as you eat in and avoid restaurants and take aways food in this country really isn't horrifically expensive.
Tuesday, 27 January 2009
Tuesday 27th January 2009
Last night Si and I decided we needed to give ourselves and the family something to look forward to so we have taken a bit of a chance and booked ourselves a 3 night getaway at a caravan park in Devon (about 4 hours drive from us) in March.....Most of the caravan parks here are run by large organisations with parks all over the country and the Haven group which we have gone with are running a spring special which means we only paid £98 for the whole family in total.
We are going to stay in one of their mobile homes and the park has beach access to a sandy beach with both an outdoor and indoor pool for if the weather is a bit iffy and lots of other things for the kiddies to do, so holding thumbs it won't be a disappointment - I have heard that most of these parks were developed in the 70's and can be a bit tired, but we so loved our holidays at Happy Wanderers and Bazley on the KZN South Coast that we have decided to take a risk and go for it......if we don't try we will never know.
Spent some time at Rhymetime and Cafe Rouge this morning and then had to take Nick for his BCG vaccination...they are not done as a matter of course here and I have been on a waiting list since he was born, but at least it has been done now and I can rest easy when we next return to SA on holiday.
Things with Pedal Studio have settled down to a nice manageable level and I am enjoying the couple of hours a day mental stimulation, Si is being really great about it and helping with Nick in the evenings when I need to do the final updates. Lisel popping in this evening on her way home for a glass of wine which will be lovely and then I am off to Kindermusiek in the morning with my neighbour Stephanie, so once again a busy couple of days.....but better that then bored I always say.
We are going to stay in one of their mobile homes and the park has beach access to a sandy beach with both an outdoor and indoor pool for if the weather is a bit iffy and lots of other things for the kiddies to do, so holding thumbs it won't be a disappointment - I have heard that most of these parks were developed in the 70's and can be a bit tired, but we so loved our holidays at Happy Wanderers and Bazley on the KZN South Coast that we have decided to take a risk and go for it......if we don't try we will never know.
Spent some time at Rhymetime and Cafe Rouge this morning and then had to take Nick for his BCG vaccination...they are not done as a matter of course here and I have been on a waiting list since he was born, but at least it has been done now and I can rest easy when we next return to SA on holiday.
Things with Pedal Studio have settled down to a nice manageable level and I am enjoying the couple of hours a day mental stimulation, Si is being really great about it and helping with Nick in the evenings when I need to do the final updates. Lisel popping in this evening on her way home for a glass of wine which will be lovely and then I am off to Kindermusiek in the morning with my neighbour Stephanie, so once again a busy couple of days.....but better that then bored I always say.
Monday, 26 January 2009
In Simon's words
Hi all,
I get the impression that a number of friends and family want to hear about life in the UK from my perspective. The short description below (originally an email to family members) sums things up for me at the moment.
My work days consist of leaving home for work at 7:25 am for a 1 hour door-to-door commute via bicycle and train (what ever the weather - even snow and sleet), doing exactly what I am instructed to do without question or input and returning home at about 5:45 pm. Work day evenings consist of, helping with baby while Andrea cooks the supper, occasionally helping the kids with home work, chatting to the kids about our day while we eat supper and either reading to them or watching a move before they go to bed at 9 pm. Late evening consists of about 30 min of chores, like stacking the dish washer, loading the washing machine and hanging cloths, then either vegging in front of the telly or if I am not too tired working on some personal software project till I go to bed between 11 and mid-night and waking at 6 am to start the whole process again.
I am currently in the process of trying to find contract work or a permanent position at another company so wish me luck. I would prefer contract work until I understand the UK software development industry better then I should be in a better position to find a company I would be happy at long-term.
Week-ends are better. If we don’t go on a UK adventure (see Andrea’s blog for details) we usually spend the time walking to the park and/or local baker (its safe to walk any where any time here in Lindfield), playing PS2, computer or board games with the kids(its cold and dark early in winter), watching videos or going to the movies, going to the in-door swimming pool, visiting friends or having them round to visit and other such fun things. Once a month I have a poker evening with the boys (about 6 of us) but I only have one drink as drink-driving (not “drunk-driving” – not sure why the present tense is used in the UK) is a serious offence here and results in going to jail where you have to be bailed out and your sentencing (about a year later) usually results in a hefty fine and loss of your drivers license.
Cheers Si
I get the impression that a number of friends and family want to hear about life in the UK from my perspective. The short description below (originally an email to family members) sums things up for me at the moment.
My work days consist of leaving home for work at 7:25 am for a 1 hour door-to-door commute via bicycle and train (what ever the weather - even snow and sleet), doing exactly what I am instructed to do without question or input and returning home at about 5:45 pm. Work day evenings consist of, helping with baby while Andrea cooks the supper, occasionally helping the kids with home work, chatting to the kids about our day while we eat supper and either reading to them or watching a move before they go to bed at 9 pm. Late evening consists of about 30 min of chores, like stacking the dish washer, loading the washing machine and hanging cloths, then either vegging in front of the telly or if I am not too tired working on some personal software project till I go to bed between 11 and mid-night and waking at 6 am to start the whole process again.
I am currently in the process of trying to find contract work or a permanent position at another company so wish me luck. I would prefer contract work until I understand the UK software development industry better then I should be in a better position to find a company I would be happy at long-term.
Week-ends are better. If we don’t go on a UK adventure (see Andrea’s blog for details) we usually spend the time walking to the park and/or local baker (its safe to walk any where any time here in Lindfield), playing PS2, computer or board games with the kids(its cold and dark early in winter), watching videos or going to the movies, going to the in-door swimming pool, visiting friends or having them round to visit and other such fun things. Once a month I have a poker evening with the boys (about 6 of us) but I only have one drink as drink-driving (not “drunk-driving” – not sure why the present tense is used in the UK) is a serious offence here and results in going to jail where you have to be bailed out and your sentencing (about a year later) usually results in a hefty fine and loss of your drivers license.
Cheers Si
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY WONDERFUL PRECIOUS HUSBAND!!!!!
Today Simon turns 39, and I simply can't believe that when I met him he was a youngster of just 21 with his whole life ahead of him and the idea of being almost 40 an unimaginable thought. He had long hair, a number of earrings (and a gorgeous bod) and was a young BSc student when we met, today he is a wise, sincere and loyal man (and still has a pretty good bod) who I can't believe I am lucky enough to be married to.
We have been together 18 years and I believe we have been some of the lucky ones - I can truthfully say that we have grown together rather then apart and the years have only strengthened our deep love and respect for each other.....Simon is my best friend, my confidant, my lover, the father of my beautiful children and my safe place.
So happy birthday to you Si, I know the year hasn't started off as easily as you would have hoped, and I think the prospect of 40 is making you restless and eager to finally do your own thing and realise some more of your dreams, but be patient my love, your time will come and you will find all the happiness, satisfaction and peace you so deserve.
I LOVE YOU!!!!!
We have been together 18 years and I believe we have been some of the lucky ones - I can truthfully say that we have grown together rather then apart and the years have only strengthened our deep love and respect for each other.....Simon is my best friend, my confidant, my lover, the father of my beautiful children and my safe place.
So happy birthday to you Si, I know the year hasn't started off as easily as you would have hoped, and I think the prospect of 40 is making you restless and eager to finally do your own thing and realise some more of your dreams, but be patient my love, your time will come and you will find all the happiness, satisfaction and peace you so deserve.
I LOVE YOU!!!!!
Sunday, 25 January 2009
Sunday 25th January 2009
It is 6.45 pm and already I can hear my little bed calling.....oh the thought of an entire nights sleep seems too good to be true....and of course it is, but I figure if I go up about the same time as Megan and Phillip I should get a couple of hours before my littlest needs a feed, and the way I feel tonight those couple of hours will be total bliss!
We have had a very busy weekend and I am in that nice tired state where dosing on the couch in front of the central heating is all that I feel moved to do and even typing this entry is more activity then I am wanting right now.....Saturday involved cleaning house and cooking in preparation for Simon's birthday celebration in the evening and today included mounds and mounds of ironing and an impromptu trip to the village for gifts.
Once again spending time with Rob, Kerry, AJ and Lisel on Saturday night was everything we hoped for and more and I think Si's first birthday in England was a success.....he was relaxed and happy and we spent hours laughing and chatting like much older friends then we actually are.....maybe it is our common "South Africaniss" that has forged such a strong bond so quickly, but like I have said before, I really thank god for sending these wonderful people into our lives.
Today as I trudged through the village high street in the pouring rain looking for my dh's birthday gift (no it wasn't a last thought, I knew what I was going to get all along....just needed to have the opportunity to go and get it) I found myself thinking longingly of "Pavillion"style shopping....somehow the charm of a little English country village high street is diluted when you have to literally charge from shop to shop jumping puddles in an attempt to get out of the rain, and once you have your purchases you have to "waterproof" them in about 6 plastic bags (very uneco friendly) so that you can get them back to the car....in these moments thoughts of piped music and elevators and shops under one roof taunted me.....but hey, shopping in the rain, another FIRST so guess I need to stop complaining.
We have had a very busy weekend and I am in that nice tired state where dosing on the couch in front of the central heating is all that I feel moved to do and even typing this entry is more activity then I am wanting right now.....Saturday involved cleaning house and cooking in preparation for Simon's birthday celebration in the evening and today included mounds and mounds of ironing and an impromptu trip to the village for gifts.
Once again spending time with Rob, Kerry, AJ and Lisel on Saturday night was everything we hoped for and more and I think Si's first birthday in England was a success.....he was relaxed and happy and we spent hours laughing and chatting like much older friends then we actually are.....maybe it is our common "South Africaniss" that has forged such a strong bond so quickly, but like I have said before, I really thank god for sending these wonderful people into our lives.
Today as I trudged through the village high street in the pouring rain looking for my dh's birthday gift (no it wasn't a last thought, I knew what I was going to get all along....just needed to have the opportunity to go and get it) I found myself thinking longingly of "Pavillion"style shopping....somehow the charm of a little English country village high street is diluted when you have to literally charge from shop to shop jumping puddles in an attempt to get out of the rain, and once you have your purchases you have to "waterproof" them in about 6 plastic bags (very uneco friendly) so that you can get them back to the car....in these moments thoughts of piped music and elevators and shops under one roof taunted me.....but hey, shopping in the rain, another FIRST so guess I need to stop complaining.
Thursday, 22 January 2009
Thursday 22nd January 2009
Shew (now there is a "South Africanism" for you) it is lovely to have the whole day at home with only the children's collection at 3pm this afternoon to tempt me out of doors.....the weather has turned "typically" English winter over the last couple of days and although it is warmer (7 degrees) it is wet and windy and GREY....finally the grey skies I have heard so much about - honestly, I do prefer the subzero temps with electric blue skies, but hey you can't have it all so I will hunker down and live with it for a couple more days before I really start moaning.
My plans for today are simple.....to do as little as possible......I finally have Pedal Studio under control and down to the planned 1-2 hours per day which is great and I have no social plans so I am going to cook Nick some food and then do some housework and chill with my baby boy.
I commented to Simon this morning that 3 months ago I was literally gagging to get out the house and would do ANYTHING for SOMETHING to do and now I am quite content, I live a whirl of a social life with some fantastic girls and I am actually looking forward to some time on my own....not too much mind you, but today is perfect.
I also don't think it will do Nick any harm to be home for the day, with London on Monday, walking at Wakehurst on Tuesday, Kindermusiek and tea with Hilary on Wednesday and walking at Sheffield Park tomorrow it has also been a hell of a week for him and some home time is probably not a bad idea.
My plans for today are simple.....to do as little as possible......I finally have Pedal Studio under control and down to the planned 1-2 hours per day which is great and I have no social plans so I am going to cook Nick some food and then do some housework and chill with my baby boy.
I commented to Simon this morning that 3 months ago I was literally gagging to get out the house and would do ANYTHING for SOMETHING to do and now I am quite content, I live a whirl of a social life with some fantastic girls and I am actually looking forward to some time on my own....not too much mind you, but today is perfect.
I also don't think it will do Nick any harm to be home for the day, with London on Monday, walking at Wakehurst on Tuesday, Kindermusiek and tea with Hilary on Wednesday and walking at Sheffield Park tomorrow it has also been a hell of a week for him and some home time is probably not a bad idea.
Tuesday, 20 January 2009
Wednesday 21st January 2009
What a CRAZY start to the week, I have LOVED being involved with Pedal Studio and it has kept me out of mischief....in fact last night I literally fell into bed before 7pm - although to be fair that had more to do with this damn sore throat then work, but it feels really good to be mentally working again.
I have just been reading my friend Cheryl Goodenough's blog (Cheryl and her family have recently moved to Australia) and I fell in love with her most recent post so I have copied it to share with you all....as far as I know it isn't original so some of you may have read it before, but it really touched me.
1. Take a 10-30 minute walk every day. And while you walk, smile. It is the ultimate anti-depressant. (I have been doing plenty of walking, now I just have to remember the smiling)
2. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day (Oh yes)
3. Buy a DVR and tape your late night shows and get more sleep.
4. When you wake up in the morning complete the following statement, 'My purpose is to __________ today. (Love this one...works for me)
5. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.
6. Play more games and read more books than you did in 2008.
7. Make time to practice meditation and/or prayer. They provide us with daily fuel for our busy lives.
8. Spend time with people over the age of 70 and under the age of 6.
9. Dream more while you are awake.
10. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured IN plants.
11. Drink green tea and plenty of water. Eat blueberries, wild Alaskan salmon (not sure how well that will fit into the budget!), broccoli, almonds, & walnuts.
12. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
13. Clear clutter from your house, your car, your desk, and let new and flowing energy into your life.
14. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip, or issues of the past, negative thoughts, or things you cannot control. Instead, invest your energy in the positive present moment.
15. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class, but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime. (LOVE LOVE LOVE that one!)
16. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince, and dinner like a college kid with a maxed out charge card.
17. Smile and laugh more. It will keep the NEGATIVE BLUES away.
18. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
20. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
21. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
22. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
23. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
24. No one is in charge of your happiness except you. (Oh yes)
25. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: 'In five years, will this matter?'
26. Forgive everyone for everything.
27. What other people think of you is none of your business.
29. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
30. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.
31. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful, or joyful.
32. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
33. The best is yet to come.
34. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up, and show up.
35. Do the right thing!
36. Call your family often. (Or e-mail / skype them to death!) [Or put it on your blog and hope they'll go and read it regularly!]
37. Each night before you go to bed, complete the following statements: I am thankful for __________. Today I accomplished _________.
38. Remember that you are too blessed to be stressed.
39. Enjoy the ride. Remember this is not Disney World and you certainly don't want a fast pass. You only have one ride through life, so make the most of it and enjoy the ride. [I LOVE that]
40. Share this with those you care about. I just did. May your troubles be less. May your blessings be more. May nothing but happiness come through your door!
I have just been reading my friend Cheryl Goodenough's blog (Cheryl and her family have recently moved to Australia) and I fell in love with her most recent post so I have copied it to share with you all....as far as I know it isn't original so some of you may have read it before, but it really touched me.
1. Take a 10-30 minute walk every day. And while you walk, smile. It is the ultimate anti-depressant. (I have been doing plenty of walking, now I just have to remember the smiling)
2. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day (Oh yes)
3. Buy a DVR and tape your late night shows and get more sleep.
4. When you wake up in the morning complete the following statement, 'My purpose is to __________ today. (Love this one...works for me)
5. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.
6. Play more games and read more books than you did in 2008.
7. Make time to practice meditation and/or prayer. They provide us with daily fuel for our busy lives.
8. Spend time with people over the age of 70 and under the age of 6.
9. Dream more while you are awake.
10. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured IN plants.
11. Drink green tea and plenty of water. Eat blueberries, wild Alaskan salmon (not sure how well that will fit into the budget!), broccoli, almonds, & walnuts.
12. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
13. Clear clutter from your house, your car, your desk, and let new and flowing energy into your life.
14. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip, or issues of the past, negative thoughts, or things you cannot control. Instead, invest your energy in the positive present moment.
15. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class, but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime. (LOVE LOVE LOVE that one!)
16. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince, and dinner like a college kid with a maxed out charge card.
17. Smile and laugh more. It will keep the NEGATIVE BLUES away.
18. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
20. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
21. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
22. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
23. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
24. No one is in charge of your happiness except you. (Oh yes)
25. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: 'In five years, will this matter?'
26. Forgive everyone for everything.
27. What other people think of you is none of your business.
29. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
30. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.
31. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful, or joyful.
32. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
33. The best is yet to come.
34. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up, and show up.
35. Do the right thing!
36. Call your family often. (Or e-mail / skype them to death!) [Or put it on your blog and hope they'll go and read it regularly!]
37. Each night before you go to bed, complete the following statements: I am thankful for __________. Today I accomplished _________.
38. Remember that you are too blessed to be stressed.
39. Enjoy the ride. Remember this is not Disney World and you certainly don't want a fast pass. You only have one ride through life, so make the most of it and enjoy the ride. [I LOVE that]
40. Share this with those you care about. I just did. May your troubles be less. May your blessings be more. May nothing but happiness come through your door!
Monday, 19 January 2009
Monday 19th January 2009
I am taking my husband to the South African Embassy in London and he will NEVER want to go back again..........to say I had a hell of a day is the understatement of the century and it reminded me of all the things I used to find frustrating with Home Affairs.....no, to be fair, I must change that, our last experience with Home Affairs in South Africa was actually very efficient and I have no complaints.....but the embassy here....now that is something else all together.
Having made my way up to London on the early train I spent a truly lovely couple of hours with my cuz wandering around the Covent Garden, Leister Square, Piccadilly Circus area - we chatted and chatted and as he is very knowledgeable on the history of London it was like having my own personal tour guide at times - I LOVED it as I find the English history one of the greatest advantages of living here.
Andrew took me for coffee in the most divine little coffee shop with edible treats to die for and we snuggled up and enjoyed the aroma of the different coffees and chatted some more while Nicholas worked his magic and charmed all the patrons in the place (all 8 of us and you have to share tables with strangers....wonderful, wish I had taken my camera....sigh). After coffee it was time for the embassy and all I will say is that it was a totally unsuccessful trip and I will have to go back in a couple of weeks to once again try and sort out the documentation.....Enough said!
Lunch to calm my nerves and then back on the train home....a long and at times frustrating day, but spending time with Andrew and seeing his new studio made it all worthwhile. Nicholas was an absolute saint and I am convinced I have been blessed with the most laid back baby in the world!
Having made my way up to London on the early train I spent a truly lovely couple of hours with my cuz wandering around the Covent Garden, Leister Square, Piccadilly Circus area - we chatted and chatted and as he is very knowledgeable on the history of London it was like having my own personal tour guide at times - I LOVED it as I find the English history one of the greatest advantages of living here.
Andrew took me for coffee in the most divine little coffee shop with edible treats to die for and we snuggled up and enjoyed the aroma of the different coffees and chatted some more while Nicholas worked his magic and charmed all the patrons in the place (all 8 of us and you have to share tables with strangers....wonderful, wish I had taken my camera....sigh). After coffee it was time for the embassy and all I will say is that it was a totally unsuccessful trip and I will have to go back in a couple of weeks to once again try and sort out the documentation.....Enough said!
Lunch to calm my nerves and then back on the train home....a long and at times frustrating day, but spending time with Andrew and seeing his new studio made it all worthwhile. Nicholas was an absolute saint and I am convinced I have been blessed with the most laid back baby in the world!
Sunday, 18 January 2009
Sunday 18th January 2009
A post by one of my blog buddy's the other day really hit home, and made me realise that sometimes the thought that you will NEVER return to South Africa is enough to send you into a downwards spiral of homesickness fed by this inevitability. As with anything, if a door is firmly closed in front of you, the picture of what is behind it increases in importance, until we almost obsess about how wonderful it would be to get through that door, we hammer on it and stare at it longingly and everything else around us pales into insignificance.....but open a window next to the door and the fresh air flows through, you can see what is behind the door with clearer eyes and you know that if you are absolutely desperate you can always climb through that window.
So now, in the interests of helping Simon through this rough patch, we have "opened a window" and decided that we will remain in this country for the years necessary for my children to naturalise (due to my British passport) thereby giving them all the opportunities possible as they will be dual citizens and can make up their own minds as they grow up as to where they want to live and study....and at the end of this time, Si and I will reassess our situation and make a decision as to where we want to grow old.
I cannot help but hope that in this time, Simon will find his feet and grow to love the English way of life as I have, or if not, to at least embrace the good parts of it and accept those that he finds difficult at the moment.....I am hoping that now that he no longer feels obligated to remain here he will return to enjoying the experience or adventure as I have so often called it and in doing this will find some of the peace that the rest of us have.
So now, in the interests of helping Simon through this rough patch, we have "opened a window" and decided that we will remain in this country for the years necessary for my children to naturalise (due to my British passport) thereby giving them all the opportunities possible as they will be dual citizens and can make up their own minds as they grow up as to where they want to live and study....and at the end of this time, Si and I will reassess our situation and make a decision as to where we want to grow old.
I cannot help but hope that in this time, Simon will find his feet and grow to love the English way of life as I have, or if not, to at least embrace the good parts of it and accept those that he finds difficult at the moment.....I am hoping that now that he no longer feels obligated to remain here he will return to enjoying the experience or adventure as I have so often called it and in doing this will find some of the peace that the rest of us have.
Saturday, 17 January 2009
Saturday 17th January 2009
What a CRAZY last couple of days. Apart from taking some time to recover from my pharangytis, I have also been trying to obtain some kind of travel document for my darling Nicholas as the opportunity presented itself for us to return to South Africa for our intended visit in April.....well I have exhausted absolutely every avenue and paid a fortune in phone bills only to determine that we definitely won't be coming back as Nick is in fact not entitled to a British passport and it is going to take up to a year for his South African one to come through....I know I know, sounds insane, but that is "African" time for you, and the fact that he was born in a foreign country seems to complicate things tremendously.
Not all was doom and gloom though, I had a very fortuitous conversation with my cuz on Friday morning and I am now working for him on a part time basis (from home) administering the website for his latest business....Pedalstudio.....Andy has always been a fantastic businessman with great ideas so I am sure that this one is going to fly, and he seems quite chuffed to have me along to take away some of those admin headaches for him. Going up to London (on my own with Nick again) on Monday to check out his studio and then to the SA Embassy to sort out Nicholas's birth registration and passport application.
Spent most of today checking out houses....yes back looking for the perfect one at the perfect rent.....isn't that typical of most of us who don't own our own homes - once again nothing I would even let my dogs live in so we will keep looking and at least every time we get home we realise just how lucky we are.
Off swimming at the Olympus on Sunday which is always fun and then London on Monday and tea and a walk with the NCT girls on Tuesday so lots to look forward to again this week. Si seems to be feeling a little better and is whistling around the house again which is always a good sign.
Not all was doom and gloom though, I had a very fortuitous conversation with my cuz on Friday morning and I am now working for him on a part time basis (from home) administering the website for his latest business....Pedalstudio.....Andy has always been a fantastic businessman with great ideas so I am sure that this one is going to fly, and he seems quite chuffed to have me along to take away some of those admin headaches for him. Going up to London (on my own with Nick again) on Monday to check out his studio and then to the SA Embassy to sort out Nicholas's birth registration and passport application.
Spent most of today checking out houses....yes back looking for the perfect one at the perfect rent.....isn't that typical of most of us who don't own our own homes - once again nothing I would even let my dogs live in so we will keep looking and at least every time we get home we realise just how lucky we are.
Off swimming at the Olympus on Sunday which is always fun and then London on Monday and tea and a walk with the NCT girls on Tuesday so lots to look forward to again this week. Si seems to be feeling a little better and is whistling around the house again which is always a good sign.
Wednesday, 14 January 2009
Wednesday 14th January 2009
I have arrived at the opinion that it is the little things that can derail a successful immigration just as they can derail a marriage......you can only hope to be one of the lucky ones and when one member of the family is struggling and unsettled the rest can balance the boat so to speak until you are once again in "calm" waters.
9 months into his time here my dh is really going through a rough patch, I think it it predominantly due to the fact that he is restless at work and looking for greater challenges. On talking about it last night he mentioned that it is one thing to be frustrated at work when the rest of your life is in a comfort zone but when EVERYTHING you have known your whole life has changed it is all the more unsettling.
Fortunately Si is one of the wisest men I know and he enters into no decision lightly so although he is finding it tough (and I don't think cycling home after a 40 min train ride in the pitch dark at subzero temperatures is helping any) he is by no means considering throwing in the towel at this stage and I am sure that slowly but surely he will find his footing again. He is certainly not desperately unhappy and still finds a tremendous amount of pleasure in our family and the time that we spend together over the weekends. One thing it has however made me realise is that you can never really say "well that is it, we have done it" as things change daily and what is fine today can push you over the edge tomorrow.
I on the other hand am going through a particularly good patch (which helps tremendously with keeping that aforementioned boat steady as it would be dreadful if we were both rocky) and am loving the way my life is going.....I love the time at home with Nicholas and just enjoying being his mom, I now enjoy doing reading and homework with my older two and I enjoy going out to meet new people. Above all I think I am enjoying the freedom to walk and walk and walk......decided to walk to Kindermusiek this morning (roughly 10kms round trip) and have come home feeling restored and rejuvenated (if exhausted lol) and ready to stand by my man!
9 months into his time here my dh is really going through a rough patch, I think it it predominantly due to the fact that he is restless at work and looking for greater challenges. On talking about it last night he mentioned that it is one thing to be frustrated at work when the rest of your life is in a comfort zone but when EVERYTHING you have known your whole life has changed it is all the more unsettling.
Fortunately Si is one of the wisest men I know and he enters into no decision lightly so although he is finding it tough (and I don't think cycling home after a 40 min train ride in the pitch dark at subzero temperatures is helping any) he is by no means considering throwing in the towel at this stage and I am sure that slowly but surely he will find his footing again. He is certainly not desperately unhappy and still finds a tremendous amount of pleasure in our family and the time that we spend together over the weekends. One thing it has however made me realise is that you can never really say "well that is it, we have done it" as things change daily and what is fine today can push you over the edge tomorrow.
I on the other hand am going through a particularly good patch (which helps tremendously with keeping that aforementioned boat steady as it would be dreadful if we were both rocky) and am loving the way my life is going.....I love the time at home with Nicholas and just enjoying being his mom, I now enjoy doing reading and homework with my older two and I enjoy going out to meet new people. Above all I think I am enjoying the freedom to walk and walk and walk......decided to walk to Kindermusiek this morning (roughly 10kms round trip) and have come home feeling restored and rejuvenated (if exhausted lol) and ready to stand by my man!
Tuesday, 13 January 2009
Questions and answers
I read these questions and answers a couple of days ago on blog buddy's blog and really enjoyed them so thought I would give them a go
What did you do in 2008 that you'd never done before?
Moved country.
Did you keep your New Year's resolutions, and will you make more for this year?
Absolutely, they are the same every year....to eat, drink and be merry....easy to keep lol.
Did anyone close to you give birth?
My nephew and his partner had a little girl and I had Nic.
Did anyone close to you die?
The fathers of two of my best friends so a very sad first half of the year.
What countries did you visit?
England.
What would you like to have in 2009 that you lacked in 2008?
A wonderful job for my husband which stimulates and excites him.
What dates from 2008 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?
24 May the day I left South Africa to start our new life in England and 29 July the day my precious third baby was born.
What was your biggest achievement of the year?
Moving country and having a baby within 3 months of each other and not loosing my mind completely lol
What was your biggest failure?
Not preparing my husband properly psychologically for this move.
Did you suffer illness or injury?
Gall stones which resulted in an operation to remove my gall bladder at 14 weeks pregnant.
What was the best thing you bought?
My Tom Tom Satnav system and the children's DS Lites
Whose behaviour merited celebration?
My two older children's -they have taken a HUGE upheavel in their lives with grace and good humour and have proved themselves in their new school and amongst their new friends....I am very very proud of them both.
Whose behaviour made you appalled and depressed?
Those in power who continue to allow the most horrendous attrocities to go on.
Where did most of your money go?
What money....I am a stay at home mom, or have been for the last 6 months.....other then that probably on the move.
What did you get really, really excited about?
SATC - the scrapbooking weekend that Tracy and I hosted through Scrapkits....it was just one long two day high. Oh and obviously the move and the birth of Nicholas lol.
What song will always remind you of 2008?
"Punk Rocker" - I know it is an oldy, but it was the only cd we had when we arrived here and it reminded me so much of friends back home that I played it over and over again.....Even my mom associates it with being in England.
Compared to this time last year, are you: a happier or sadder? b thinner or fatter? c richer or poorer?
Definitely happier, maybe a little fatter (still trying to shed those baby pounds) and a little poorer as we try to get back on our feet after the move.
What do you wish you'd done more of?
Nothing, I am at peace with everything I did and achieved in 2008.
What do you wish you'd done less of?
Stressing and worrying, but with me that is like saying breathing lol, so I guess it isn't really an option.
How did you spend Christmas?
With wonderful new friends who opened their home to us and made it a very special day.
Did you fall in love in 2008?
I fall in love with my husband all over again on a regular basis (aaaahhhh sounds a bit corny I know), oh yes and with little Nicholas.
What was your favourite TV programme?
Gilmore Girls reruns which I watched from beginning to end; Strictly come dancing, Gok Won's How to look good naked and Ramsay's Kitchen nightmares.
Do you hate anyone now that you didn't hate this time last year?
Definitely not, I try not to go through life hating people.
What was the best book you read?
That is impossible, I read about 40 of them.....but didn't hate any of those so guess they were all good.
What was your greatest musical discovery?
Didn't have one this year I am afraid.
What did you want and get?
MY BABY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
What did you want and not get?
Nothing I can think of....what a lovely position to be in if I say so myself.
What was your favourite film of this year?
Mama Mia.
What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?
35 and can't really remember....sure it had something to do with the bratz in the morning and my folks in the evening....first half of the year a bit of a blur......know Tracy was at hobbyX in JHB that weekend.
What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?
Wow, I can't think of a thing.....2008 was just a really good year for the Robertsons
How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2008?
Same old same old....jeans and retro fabrics. Spent a large part of it in maternity wear though lol.
What kept you sane?
Skype....without skype I would have gone mad, need the daily contact with my loved ones back in South Africa.
Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?
Fancy as in make the hormones jump....gotta be Gordon Ramsay.....I know I know.
What political issue stirred you the most?
Thabo Mbeki resigning as president of South Africa.....I found it very unsettling, especially watching from so far away.
Who did you miss?
Everybody we left behind.
Who was the best new person you met?
That is easy....Kerry and her husband Rob, they have been absolute lifesavers for us since we arrived.
Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2008.
It is not the place that makes you happy but the perspective.
What did you do in 2008 that you'd never done before?
Moved country.
Did you keep your New Year's resolutions, and will you make more for this year?
Absolutely, they are the same every year....to eat, drink and be merry....easy to keep lol.
Did anyone close to you give birth?
My nephew and his partner had a little girl and I had Nic.
Did anyone close to you die?
The fathers of two of my best friends so a very sad first half of the year.
What countries did you visit?
England.
What would you like to have in 2009 that you lacked in 2008?
A wonderful job for my husband which stimulates and excites him.
What dates from 2008 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?
24 May the day I left South Africa to start our new life in England and 29 July the day my precious third baby was born.
What was your biggest achievement of the year?
Moving country and having a baby within 3 months of each other and not loosing my mind completely lol
What was your biggest failure?
Not preparing my husband properly psychologically for this move.
Did you suffer illness or injury?
Gall stones which resulted in an operation to remove my gall bladder at 14 weeks pregnant.
What was the best thing you bought?
My Tom Tom Satnav system and the children's DS Lites
Whose behaviour merited celebration?
My two older children's -they have taken a HUGE upheavel in their lives with grace and good humour and have proved themselves in their new school and amongst their new friends....I am very very proud of them both.
Whose behaviour made you appalled and depressed?
Those in power who continue to allow the most horrendous attrocities to go on.
Where did most of your money go?
What money....I am a stay at home mom, or have been for the last 6 months.....other then that probably on the move.
What did you get really, really excited about?
SATC - the scrapbooking weekend that Tracy and I hosted through Scrapkits....it was just one long two day high. Oh and obviously the move and the birth of Nicholas lol.
What song will always remind you of 2008?
"Punk Rocker" - I know it is an oldy, but it was the only cd we had when we arrived here and it reminded me so much of friends back home that I played it over and over again.....Even my mom associates it with being in England.
Compared to this time last year, are you: a happier or sadder? b thinner or fatter? c richer or poorer?
Definitely happier, maybe a little fatter (still trying to shed those baby pounds) and a little poorer as we try to get back on our feet after the move.
What do you wish you'd done more of?
Nothing, I am at peace with everything I did and achieved in 2008.
What do you wish you'd done less of?
Stressing and worrying, but with me that is like saying breathing lol, so I guess it isn't really an option.
How did you spend Christmas?
With wonderful new friends who opened their home to us and made it a very special day.
Did you fall in love in 2008?
I fall in love with my husband all over again on a regular basis (aaaahhhh sounds a bit corny I know), oh yes and with little Nicholas.
What was your favourite TV programme?
Gilmore Girls reruns which I watched from beginning to end; Strictly come dancing, Gok Won's How to look good naked and Ramsay's Kitchen nightmares.
Do you hate anyone now that you didn't hate this time last year?
Definitely not, I try not to go through life hating people.
What was the best book you read?
That is impossible, I read about 40 of them.....but didn't hate any of those so guess they were all good.
What was your greatest musical discovery?
Didn't have one this year I am afraid.
What did you want and get?
MY BABY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
What did you want and not get?
Nothing I can think of....what a lovely position to be in if I say so myself.
What was your favourite film of this year?
Mama Mia.
What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?
35 and can't really remember....sure it had something to do with the bratz in the morning and my folks in the evening....first half of the year a bit of a blur......know Tracy was at hobbyX in JHB that weekend.
What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?
Wow, I can't think of a thing.....2008 was just a really good year for the Robertsons
How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2008?
Same old same old....jeans and retro fabrics. Spent a large part of it in maternity wear though lol.
What kept you sane?
Skype....without skype I would have gone mad, need the daily contact with my loved ones back in South Africa.
Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?
Fancy as in make the hormones jump....gotta be Gordon Ramsay.....I know I know.
What political issue stirred you the most?
Thabo Mbeki resigning as president of South Africa.....I found it very unsettling, especially watching from so far away.
Who did you miss?
Everybody we left behind.
Who was the best new person you met?
That is easy....Kerry and her husband Rob, they have been absolute lifesavers for us since we arrived.
Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2008.
It is not the place that makes you happy but the perspective.
Musings....
On my return from the doctors this morning (yes I got an appointment....diagnosis Pharyngitis and antibiotics) I found myself sitting quietly in the car outside our home for a few moments enjoying the peep through of sunshine and the warmer weather (9 degrees today). While sitting I found myself staring at my hands - hands that are finally starting to show their age.....becoming my mothers hands. I remember my mom always saying that about her hands and until today never understanding what she meant.
As I looked at my hands I started to think about my life to date...I am 35 years old and if I am lucky just on half way through my life and I honestly believe that I am one of the lucky ones. I don't have many (if any) regrets and I have had wonderful opportunities and been blessed with wonderful people throughout my life. If I could go back and start again, I don't think I would change a single thing, I would walk exactly the same path with exactly the same people and that is really remarkable and I am eternally grateful......I feel that I have been able to live a truly "charmed" life.
Turning my hands over I think of all the things they have done and achieved....not great acts perhaps like some....but loving acts and acts I hope of kindness, they have cared for and held my 3 precious children, caressed and loved my wonderful husband, touched others with sympathy and shown solidarity in times of hardship....they have celebrated through clapping and shown joy at the simple things, they have picked beautiful flowers, touched a cheetah and stroked the face of an African elephant....they have been held together in prayer and fear, each moment marking a memory. My prayer then is that the next 35 years will pass as the first have, that I will get to touch my grandchildren one day with these same hands and perhaps make a difference if a few more lives.
As I looked at my hands I started to think about my life to date...I am 35 years old and if I am lucky just on half way through my life and I honestly believe that I am one of the lucky ones. I don't have many (if any) regrets and I have had wonderful opportunities and been blessed with wonderful people throughout my life. If I could go back and start again, I don't think I would change a single thing, I would walk exactly the same path with exactly the same people and that is really remarkable and I am eternally grateful......I feel that I have been able to live a truly "charmed" life.
Turning my hands over I think of all the things they have done and achieved....not great acts perhaps like some....but loving acts and acts I hope of kindness, they have cared for and held my 3 precious children, caressed and loved my wonderful husband, touched others with sympathy and shown solidarity in times of hardship....they have celebrated through clapping and shown joy at the simple things, they have picked beautiful flowers, touched a cheetah and stroked the face of an African elephant....they have been held together in prayer and fear, each moment marking a memory. My prayer then is that the next 35 years will pass as the first have, that I will get to touch my grandchildren one day with these same hands and perhaps make a difference if a few more lives.
Monday, 12 January 2009
Monday 12th January 2009
I awoke this morning to a day not unlike what I have always imagined an English winter to be....cold, grey, wet and utterly dismal.....having been sick in bed all weekend with a very sore throat and dry cough I can't say I was delighted with this turn of events especially as I had to have Nic up and out of the house by 9am in order to take Phillip and a group of his classmates on an outing - but then at least the rain meant no frost to chip off the car, so that was some consolation (the novelty of de-icing my car every time I want to go out is wearing very thin).
Having returned from dropping children I decided that the time had perhaps come for me to make an appointment to see my doctor, and this was when the reality of NHS medical suddenly set in....it seemed that as I was not under the age of 16 or over the age of 60, did not have a temperature and had not been vomiting for the last 48 hours and do not have any underlying diseases and had called in after 9am I did not qualify for an appointment today and have been advised to call again tomorrow at 8am to see what they can do to help me.....to be fair I could probably have seen one of the other doctors at the practice, but as I have never been into doctor hopping I have decided to take my chances in the morning.
Now as I sat at my computer muttering about the ridiculousness of my situation I happened upon the three other Bratz and it was during a wonderful catch up skype session with them that the Universe once again reminded me to count my blessings. When Bee mentioned how much she had just had to spend to get her gardener some medical attention this morning....suddenly my FREE doctors appointment seemed rather wonderful, even if I do have to wait for it, and I am now happily coughing myself through the next 24 hours sucking ice lolly's to soothe my throat until I can get an appointment.
Off to baby rhyme time and our regular cup of coffee at Cafe Rouge tomorrow and then not a lot on for the rest of the week - probably not a bad thing considering the state of my health at the moment.
Having returned from dropping children I decided that the time had perhaps come for me to make an appointment to see my doctor, and this was when the reality of NHS medical suddenly set in....it seemed that as I was not under the age of 16 or over the age of 60, did not have a temperature and had not been vomiting for the last 48 hours and do not have any underlying diseases and had called in after 9am I did not qualify for an appointment today and have been advised to call again tomorrow at 8am to see what they can do to help me.....to be fair I could probably have seen one of the other doctors at the practice, but as I have never been into doctor hopping I have decided to take my chances in the morning.
Now as I sat at my computer muttering about the ridiculousness of my situation I happened upon the three other Bratz and it was during a wonderful catch up skype session with them that the Universe once again reminded me to count my blessings. When Bee mentioned how much she had just had to spend to get her gardener some medical attention this morning....suddenly my FREE doctors appointment seemed rather wonderful, even if I do have to wait for it, and I am now happily coughing myself through the next 24 hours sucking ice lolly's to soothe my throat until I can get an appointment.
Off to baby rhyme time and our regular cup of coffee at Cafe Rouge tomorrow and then not a lot on for the rest of the week - probably not a bad thing considering the state of my health at the moment.
Friday, 9 January 2009
Friday 9th January 2009
As I sit typing this my fingers are aching as they slowly defrost after being outside for the last couple of hours....the temp is -4 degrees and the skies are bright blue (whoever said England is grey obviously lived in a very different area to us as I can honestly say I have had more blue days then grey ones in the last 7 months...cold, oh yes, but grey....not for me). I have been out walking most of the day and the children are currently outside sliding around on the black ice....fun when you do it intentionally but can be very scary when you slip without warning as has happened to me a couple of times.
Si out tonight for his monthly poker game with Rob and the boys, he really enjoys this outing and they only play until about midnight so not too bad the next morning. I intend watching Notting Hill and The Holiday which we have rented off "LoveFilms" (wonderful concept....you choose your movies online and they post to you, you post back when finished and they send you the next lot......lovely as postage only takes 24 hours and their is no redistribution of wealth lol) and catching up with my ironing....sigh.
Wednesday, 7 January 2009
Wednesday 7th January 2009
The temps here are still very low (-8 degrees at this minute) and according to the locals this has been the coldest winter in at least 10 years, this being the longest period snow has actually remained on the ground in memory....it is not as thick as it was on Monday morning, but my back garden is still white as are any areas which don't receive much sun during the day. Apparently the temperatures last night were 10 degrees lower then the same night in 2008....so that is saying something.
I have just returned from a walk (yes it is still possible to go for a walk at minus temperatures lol) and the pond is now totally frozen, the poor swans and ducks are looking very forlorn as they pick their bread off the ice....shame they keep slipping and sliding around, must be very hard for them and they swim to keep warm so it is awful, the park keepers break the ice for them every night in one corner but it just freezes back. Such a very different way of life....shew when I think about how things have changed from this time last year it sometimes takes my breath away.
Kindermusik this morning was lovely and it was the first time I actually missed Moms and Babes...the classes are very similar and run along the same lines. Nicholas LOVED every minute of it and it was wonderful to have that focused time.....we do have it most days, but somehow this seemed different. Off to fetch Megan and Phillip soon and then they are going to bake chocolate brownies for pudding while I make a lovely big cannelloni for dinner - we certainly do eat like kings here as somehow cooking doesn't feel like such a chore....probably coz it is so warm standing in front of the oven (lol).
I have just returned from a walk (yes it is still possible to go for a walk at minus temperatures lol) and the pond is now totally frozen, the poor swans and ducks are looking very forlorn as they pick their bread off the ice....shame they keep slipping and sliding around, must be very hard for them and they swim to keep warm so it is awful, the park keepers break the ice for them every night in one corner but it just freezes back. Such a very different way of life....shew when I think about how things have changed from this time last year it sometimes takes my breath away.
Kindermusik this morning was lovely and it was the first time I actually missed Moms and Babes...the classes are very similar and run along the same lines. Nicholas LOVED every minute of it and it was wonderful to have that focused time.....we do have it most days, but somehow this seemed different. Off to fetch Megan and Phillip soon and then they are going to bake chocolate brownies for pudding while I make a lovely big cannelloni for dinner - we certainly do eat like kings here as somehow cooking doesn't feel like such a chore....probably coz it is so warm standing in front of the oven (lol).
Tuesday, 6 January 2009
Tuesday 6th January 2009
What a wonderful day....definitely another diamond. At lunch on Sunday Romy recommended an outing to Horsham (about 30 mins drive) to visit the Springboard Project - this is basically a community based charity focusing on the needs of disabled and special needs children....over weekends the Springboard House is closed to the general public and used for workshops and activities for these kids, but from Monday to Friday it is open to all in an effort to raise money to keep the project going.
The project is housed in an old Victorian style home and each room has been dedicated to a different activity (the entrepreneur in me sighs longingly). The rooms include the "adventure" room where toddlers can enjoy a fully fitted soft-play area with a large ball pool, trampoline and musical hopscotch pad, "Pudseys Playroom" where daily arts and craft sessions are organised, the Jubilee Garden providing a large outdoor area with picnic benches, swings, slides, a play house, sandpit and football area, and the room where we spent all our time today, the "Sensory" room.
The project is housed in an old Victorian style home and each room has been dedicated to a different activity (the entrepreneur in me sighs longingly). The rooms include the "adventure" room where toddlers can enjoy a fully fitted soft-play area with a large ball pool, trampoline and musical hopscotch pad, "Pudseys Playroom" where daily arts and craft sessions are organised, the Jubilee Garden providing a large outdoor area with picnic benches, swings, slides, a play house, sandpit and football area, and the room where we spent all our time today, the "Sensory" room.
This amazing room features a glowing ball pool, bubble tubes, optic fibres, a swinging hammock and a variety of other sensory equipment…and let me tell you it was awesome, we spent about 3 hours in there and all 4 babies were as happy as can be, they lay watching the lights and enjoying the ball pond. Real good old fashioned quality time!!!!!
This afternoon the big children and I did our shopping at Sainsburys and I am now totally convinced that, despite all the advertising to the contrary, overall they are cheaper than Tescos.....Tescos may be a couple of pence cheaper on some products but the amazing "BOGOF" (buy one get one free) specials run by Sainsburys especially on their meat outweighs this across a big shop and since I have been back at Sainsburys my 120 pound weekly shop is back down to between 80 and 90 pounds, not an inconsiderable saving. Prawn Paella for dinner which has become a favourite since we have been here at 3 pounds for 500g it is cheaper than chicken lol.
Tomorrow I am off to my first Kindermusiek class with Hilary and her son George. The class is being run by my friend Kerry which is great as it means I also get to spend an extra hour a week with her which is always lovely.....as I have said before, having Nic has helped me to settle tremendously and has turned out to be a fantastic way for me to make friends.
Monday, 5 January 2009
Monday 5th January 2009
We woke up this morning and it was white outside.....the excitement levels where beyond belief and even I couldn't resist getting out there and
Not quite a white Christmas, but as far as the children are concerned just as good, only sad thing is that they had to go back to school this morning so didn't get to play for very long...we can only hope that it stays on the ground long enough for them to enjoy it when they get home, the forecast does say it should be around until at least Wednesday, so who knows by the end of this winter we may be quite blase' about it all.
Sunday, 4 January 2009
Sunday 4th January 2009
Today was the last day of holidays, and I have to confess to a "back to school" feeling myself.....I have loved the company of having Simon and the children around every day and after a few "teething pains" in those early days we have settled down into such a lovely pace and routine that the house is going to seem very empty tomorrow when they are all back at work and school.
I think little Nicholas is also going to be a bit disorientated as he has really bonded with his daddy over the last 2 weeks and his precious face lights up whenever Si comes into the room....it has been a very special time for them and I think Si is going to miss him just as much.
Joined the ladies from my NCT group and their partners for lunch at the Witch this afternoon, which turned out to be a very pleasant way to while away a Sunday afternoon.....again it highlighted just how expensive it is to eat out in this country and we are going to have to have a few lean weekends to make up for it, but it was fun to be out in company with a roaring fire and interesting conversation, so well worth it I think. Had a bit of a shock on the way there however, I had decided to wash my hair before we went out and left it to dry naturally (as usual)....hadn't however anticipated the below zero temps on the way there and ended up with a frozen head of hair...literally, def another first for England lol.
I think little Nicholas is also going to be a bit disorientated as he has really bonded with his daddy over the last 2 weeks and his precious face lights up whenever Si comes into the room....it has been a very special time for them and I think Si is going to miss him just as much.
Joined the ladies from my NCT group and their partners for lunch at the Witch this afternoon, which turned out to be a very pleasant way to while away a Sunday afternoon.....again it highlighted just how expensive it is to eat out in this country and we are going to have to have a few lean weekends to make up for it, but it was fun to be out in company with a roaring fire and interesting conversation, so well worth it I think. Had a bit of a shock on the way there however, I had decided to wash my hair before we went out and left it to dry naturally (as usual)....hadn't however anticipated the below zero temps on the way there and ended up with a frozen head of hair...literally, def another first for England lol.
Friday, 2 January 2009
Friday 2nd January 2009
After another sleepless night with Nicholas feeding literally every 2 hours, Si and I decided today was the day and after a late afternoon visit to our library we stopped at Sainsburys to buy Nicholas his first solid food.....Hibb Organic Banana and Peach Cereal.
He LOVED his first meal and even cried once or twice when the food was a bit slow in coming....we shared the moment with my folks on the webcam and I think they enjoyed being part of their grandsons first meal....Mom even gave me what for about feeding him too much (lol)...once again thank heavens for technology!!!!!
As I sat finishing his meal with a milk topup I have to confess to feeling a shiver of sadness, my much longed for baby boy is already 5 months old and I am just not sure where the time is going...the first solid meal is one of those big milestones and before I know it he is going to be crawling around and singing nursery rhymes - oh how I wish I knew how to slow it all down.
He LOVED his first meal and even cried once or twice when the food was a bit slow in coming....we shared the moment with my folks on the webcam and I think they enjoyed being part of their grandsons first meal....Mom even gave me what for about feeding him too much (lol)...once again thank heavens for technology!!!!!
As I sat finishing his meal with a milk topup I have to confess to feeling a shiver of sadness, my much longed for baby boy is already 5 months old and I am just not sure where the time is going...the first solid meal is one of those big milestones and before I know it he is going to be crawling around and singing nursery rhymes - oh how I wish I knew how to slow it all down.
Thursday, 1 January 2009
And another year begins
Shew.....as we cleaned house and tossed out old toys, clothes, papers etc in preparation for the new year I really had time to reflect on 2008 and make some decisions about 2009.
As I have said before, I don't believe that we will ever have another year quite like 2008 and I think that goes for a lot of families I know, those who have taken the plunge and left their homes to set up new lives in new countries all over the world....for the Andrews, the Goodenough Hoars, the Rasmussens, the Mortimers, the Littles and the Grays life has changed beyond recognition, for some for the better and sadly for others, for the worse, but one thing has to be said for all of us, we came, we did and we got the t-shirt....so good on us!
For those who remained in South Africa, lives also changed dramatically over the last year, you have lost friends and family members to the "global village" and in some cases to illness, and you have lived with the uncertainty of an ousted president and an ever present threat of crime, and yet all that I know personally have remained positive and upbeat and have an everlasting faith in the country of our birth and that is awe inspiring.....2008 was a great year for most of you despite any hardships....so good on you too!!!!!
As for the year going forward, there are many plans for the Robertson five, exciting job prospects for Simon, high school for Megan and an upcoming visits from my dear friend Mary, Si's sister, Jann and my parents.....loads to look forward to, but no doubt there will also be frustration and sadness in the next 12 months, but we plan to face it all as we have faced the last 12 months, together, with a smile on our faces and a positive attitude and with the belief that together we can get through it all.
The birth of our precious son in July was the realisation of a dream for me and the ultimate gift from my husband....it is no secret that having another baby was my idea and something that Si entered into with reticence, but Nicholas is the soul I always knew was waiting to be born into our family and he has completed us in so many ways.
A very blessed year and we can only hope and pray that we will be favoured again through 2009 and that we will continue to be able to live our dream. My hope and prayers for all my family and friends both in South Africa and abroad is that you find your passion and follow it....as my darling friend Beryldene always says "you have to do what makes your heart sing" - wise words from a wonderful and wise woman.....so if you aren't already doing it, make this the year you listen to your heart and follow your dreams, you will never know if you don't try.
As I have said before, I don't believe that we will ever have another year quite like 2008 and I think that goes for a lot of families I know, those who have taken the plunge and left their homes to set up new lives in new countries all over the world....for the Andrews, the Goodenough Hoars, the Rasmussens, the Mortimers, the Littles and the Grays life has changed beyond recognition, for some for the better and sadly for others, for the worse, but one thing has to be said for all of us, we came, we did and we got the t-shirt....so good on us!
For those who remained in South Africa, lives also changed dramatically over the last year, you have lost friends and family members to the "global village" and in some cases to illness, and you have lived with the uncertainty of an ousted president and an ever present threat of crime, and yet all that I know personally have remained positive and upbeat and have an everlasting faith in the country of our birth and that is awe inspiring.....2008 was a great year for most of you despite any hardships....so good on you too!!!!!
As for the year going forward, there are many plans for the Robertson five, exciting job prospects for Simon, high school for Megan and an upcoming visits from my dear friend Mary, Si's sister, Jann and my parents.....loads to look forward to, but no doubt there will also be frustration and sadness in the next 12 months, but we plan to face it all as we have faced the last 12 months, together, with a smile on our faces and a positive attitude and with the belief that together we can get through it all.
The birth of our precious son in July was the realisation of a dream for me and the ultimate gift from my husband....it is no secret that having another baby was my idea and something that Si entered into with reticence, but Nicholas is the soul I always knew was waiting to be born into our family and he has completed us in so many ways.
A very blessed year and we can only hope and pray that we will be favoured again through 2009 and that we will continue to be able to live our dream. My hope and prayers for all my family and friends both in South Africa and abroad is that you find your passion and follow it....as my darling friend Beryldene always says "you have to do what makes your heart sing" - wise words from a wonderful and wise woman.....so if you aren't already doing it, make this the year you listen to your heart and follow your dreams, you will never know if you don't try.
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